Odd though it may seem, there's a certain symmetry
Thanksgiving puts a gratitude popup on all screens, but it is more. While the Fourth of July celebrates the formal arrangements of nationhood, Thanksgiving is a mirror capable of reflecting deeply held attitudes.
The story is simple. Religious people leave their homeland because they are convinced their way of understanding God and the world is superior to all others.
They sit down to a meal provided in part by aboriginals to whom they likewise consider themselves superior.
We have succeeded in freeing Iraq from dictatorship.
Our problem is what to do with what Iraqis are doing with this freedom.
The American notion was that they would use it to build a government of representative democracy and feed themselves by means of a market economy.
Iraqis seem to want to use their freedom to kill each other.
Sen. John McCain is reported as suggesting we need either to increase troop strength significantly or get out before more Americans die.
In other words - or so it would seem - force our use of freedom on Iraqi society, or let them use it any way they want.
Trouble is, we don't like this choice.
We want the Iraqis, on their own, to choose our kind of life. We want them to be free to choose freely to free themselves of their mutual distrust, and even hatred, and to replace freely roving bands of thugs with freely competing hives of merchants.
We want them to replace shooting wars with price wars. We want them to put the pursuit of economic power in place of the pursuit of militia power.
And we want them to do so because they decide to.Freely.
The Pilgrims and those who followed them here were much more hard core. Convert the natives, or drive them off, or kill them.
Our way is better. Deal with it.
Early 21st-century Americans are truly between a rock and a hard place. We prize freedom and, sociological realities aside, attempt actually to practice it in many ways.
What we share with the Pilgrims is the attitude that our way - or, at least, or idealized vision of our way - really is the best method for allowing great gaggles of people to interact contentedly.
But we differ in our awareness of the requirements for supporting such an arrangement.
Such has been the case for many groups.
An article by Warren Goldstein in the recent issue of Yale Alumni Magazine explores the current plight of mainline Protestantism. Membership in mainline Protestant churches reached a peak about 1965 and, in the following twentyfive years, dwindled by almost a third.
Goldstein's theme is that throughout this time most of these churches-as he puts it, "the people who put the P in WASP"-ignored the nitty-gritty of organizational life. They didn't attend to the specific details of why people seek out groups, what makes them excited about being there, and why they stay.
These are realities that go beyond and in many cases overtake in significance the flavor of fulminations from the leadership, and organizations ignore them at their own peril.
All organizations, of any type. Including whole nations.
Personally, I think liberty's a terrific idea. But ideas seldom sell themselves, especially when we're talking about very large groups of people.
The Pilgrims and those who came after them did a lot of things that have since come to be judged harshly, and for good reason.
What gives pause is the reality that, think what we might of them, they were willing to do anything they could to bring their vision into being.
We might be inclined the let mainline Protestants off the hook by recalling that religious traditions (of all stripes) are pregnant with stories of people who were satisfied with the simple expression of their particular understanding of life, and eschewed any concern for effectiveness in its worldly application.
Nations do not escape as easily. We can even ratchet up our current dilemma by reference to Augustine; that most officially and unofficially religious fellow who opined that while it was natural for an individual to die, such was not the case for a nation. Thus was opened the door to war and more questions.
The Pilgrims were not uncertain about their aims.
Perhaps the next time we consider breaking a country into little pieces we should decide ahead of time what we are willing to do with it.